![]() Wednesday, December 30, 2009
![]() Back from chalet ytd. Alot of things happened during this chalet. Some good, some bad. Well, i shall not elaborate much on it. I suppose things were not going as planned. As usual, there will be some 'surprises' out of no where which caught some of us unprepared. Hmm, i hope things will end up well no matter what happened, its over now. And its the first time that i actually did not sleep for a day and still so awake. However Josanne and I were bored to the extend that we did stupid things. And we skipped meals, well, im going on a diet anyway. The second day was disastrous. Well, its a turning point for some. Sometimes we wonder, what if. What if i do this and what if i do that. But we wont know what exactly will happen. And we can't possibly having more than one outcome. This is where our decision comes in place. As always, we do not want to make a wrong decision, we hope that our decisions made are correct, are what we really wanted. When the outcome is what we really wanted, then we will be glad that we made the right decision. But, when it is the opposite, we tend to regret. Having regretted, we often ended up in tears and disappointment. To think on the bright side, maybe what we thought was right may hurt us now, but it is definitely better than the prolonged hurt which may inflict on us in the future. However, when we are in the situation, we are lost. All we can do is regret... I learnt that 'what if' is only a hypothesis question. In this world, there are no what ifs and if only. The only thing that matters is how you look at the situation. ---------------------------------------- I know that we have to believe deeply that whatever decision we made is right. Or maybe we thought about it for a long time and believe that its better this or that way. But, even though we made the right decision, there must some unwillingness in us sometimes and we often struggle with it. There are bound to be unwillingness when the decision we made may hurt someone or even ourselves. Its alright to cry or even let out your unhappiness. We are only humans. We have emotions. Its torturing to keep everything to ourselves. Its always good to find a listening ear, a good friend. We are not robots. We can't be strong every time. Sometimes we reach a point where we cant hold on any longer, we need a break from everything. We are like rubber band, when it is stretched to a limit, it may snap So, just let it out. Do not keep it inside your heart. Its hurting you, i know. You know who you are. No matter what your decisions are, i will support you. But please do not hurt yourselves. It hurts me to see my friends suffer. Please give yourselves a break. 哭过就好了,痛都会走得。记忆有限所以它会淘汰坏的。
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